Put it in writing.

What is your discipline plan or child rearing philosophy?

It is essential for a nanny to develop strong communication skills in order to build a successful relationship with the parents of the children in their care.

By keeping the lines of communication open and honest, a nanny can ensure the best care for the children in their care.

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Nannies can provide valuable insights into a child’s development, behavior, and needs, helping parents make informed decisions regarding their child’s upbringing.

What’s your procedure for spontaneous activities, outings, playdates, etc?

Open communication and collaboration between parents and nannies lay the foundation for a successful partnership.

Ina provides this document as a rubric for professional practices for all nannies.

Before your nanny’s start date, consider these nanny etiquette tips to help make sure your nanny feels like the respected professional she is.

Who makes the children’s schedules (parents, nanny, or is setting their schedule a combined effort)?

It includes suggestions and guidelines on professional development, relationships with children, relationships with employers and agencies and more.

Conflicts and misunderstandings can arise between parents and nannies.

How do you keep parents informed about their child’s day?

Let’s dive into the comprehensive list of nanny responsibilities for exceptional childcare.

Rules set boundaries for the nanny's involvement in household activities and maintain strict rules for the children while the parents are away.

Nanny rules should be clear and address as many questions and concerns as possible.

Effective communication ensures that parents are informed about their child’s progress, daily activities, and any issues that may arise.

This alignment of expectations helps ensure a harmonious working relationship and consistent care for the child.

Consider writing up a “nanny contract” to help avoid conflicts and awkward conversations in the future.

Because nannies care for a family’s greatest treasures—the children—and work in the home, some parents do not feel as comfortable communicating directly with them as they would an employee in a corporate.

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The nanny should be aware of the parent’s parenting style, and their expectations for child development, and respect any specific household rules.

Do you provide written reports or use any communication apps?

What are the children’s interests and hobbies?